The First Date – What to Wear

Alright…it’s mid-November, we’ve been flirting online for about a week now since matching on Bumble, so now it’s time we actually meet.

What the hell am I going to wear?!

Normally, I don’t stress about this too much, usually it’s a quick coffee date to see if there’s any actual chemistry, but this one was different. I was actually very interested in meeting him and super nervous!  ME!!  WTH??  He had actually planned dinner and a comedy show fundraiser for our first date, an entire evening together right out of the gate!

Typically, I wouldn’t recommend something so committed for the first meeting, but I decided to step outside of my comfort zone and just go with it. We met around 6ish for dinner, went to the comedy show, and concluded the evening with a night cap at Wine Bar Kensington. I’d say it was one hell of a first date since I found myself driving home after 1am.

So…what did I wear?

After frantically rummaging through my closet in search of the perfect outfit, I decided to keep it classy on the surface and sexy as hell underneath. Not because I was going to sleep with him, but because you will feel so damn sexy just knowing what’s underneath all that class!

LaSenza is obviously my go to for their #beyondsexy collection, but there are three little words that give me heart palpitations and send shivers down my spine…Made in Italy 🇮🇹.

So essentially, on this first date, I rocked one of my classic favorites.  An outfit that consisted of my go to “Audrey Hepburn-ish” jacket I found in Montreal ages ago at French Connection, well fitting Citizens of Humanity jeans and a conservatively sexy shirt, kick ass heels and amazing undergarments.

Remember…confidence is sexy. So get out there and own it you beautiful thang! What are your tips for a fabulous first date?

Unabashedly yours,


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